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This time I’d like to make this post a little more personal and recommend three Ted talks that touched me deeply. They are especially relevant to what is now happening in the media in Poland. There is this huge movement against the so called ‘gender ideology’ and the television and the newspapers are full of hate-filled words against homosexuals, single parents, in vitro. Even giving children the opportunity of choice whether they want to play with blue blocks or pink dolls is being attacked. Not to mention going against the ‘traditional’ and ‘natural’ gender roles or God forbid calling yourself a feminist.

The first two talks I’d like to recommend address those issues. First is a short speech delivered by Colin Stokes about children’s films that his children watched titled “How movies teach manhood“. I do not want give too much away, but suffice to say there is a dramatic twist halfway into the talk which left me speechless.

The second talk by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie “We should all be feminists” is longer and just as insightful. What struck me the most was the attitude of many men that the lecturer described. They often think that no one discriminates women anymore and dismiss any protests. Women are still discriminated. It’s true, that it’s much better nowadays that it’s been, say 50 years ago. However, as she said: “The problem with gender is that it prescribes how we should be rather than recognizing how we are.” It should not matter whether you are a woman or a men – you should be free to do as you please. You are a man and love to cook – great!. You are a women and hate it – it’s ok too.

Which leads me to the third talk, “Let’s try emotional correctness” by Sally Kohn while not strictly about feminism is still relevant to the current situation in Poland. Unfortunately the language in the media is now hate-filled and words like ‘traitor’ are used shockingly often. The talk “Let’s try emotional correctness”, I think, should made obligatory to watch for all people speaking in public. I do not begrudge anyone their own opinion. I accept that my viewpoint is not universal, and is just that: my viewpoint. But I do want others to respect me and to respect that my opinions may be different than theirs.

I hope You’ll go and listen to my recommendations and maybe find something else you like on Ted talks.

by Izabela

P.S. Sorry about the rant at the end – even with the events happening in Ukraine the “gender” topic seems to prevail.


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